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The Pompous Gentlemen Podcast is where we help improve your dating life and increase your success with women. No more settling. Hosted by PompousGentlemen.com. We share our dating insights and experiences in today's modern dating landscape.

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61: Accidentally Becoming A Dating Coach? (Podcast)
This is the story of how I accidentally got the chance to become a dating coach for a huge dating live training program... At this point, I'm still celebrating the high-euphoria of my first approach (the story from the previous podcast). Nervously walking around for 3-hours and after months of not being able to get myself to take action... I finally did it. Then... I slowly find out other friends are getting out of relationships too. This is the story of how Dating UpDate was created and before the podcast was even an idea. But during this crazy time, there's a nagging feeling that doesn't go away. I say I don't want a relationship, but do I? Here's what happens next... SHE WANTS YOU SYSTEM PRE-ORDER FLASH SALE ENDS IN 24 HOURS... An announcement that the Flash Sale Fast-Action Discount is going away in less than 24 hours. ==> https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction How would you like to become the man that women want and change your dating life in 10-weeks? Be a part of the limited 100 spots for the initial She Wants You System launch. Learn to build the courage and confidence needed to take action and attract the women you want? We're having a Preorder Fast-Action Flash Sale. You can reserve your spot in the She Wants You System for $27 today. This is 73% off the preorder price of $97. There are limited spots so preorder to reserve yours today. Your discount is expiring on May 2nd, 2019 @ Midnight. For more information and to preorder click the link below. Reserve Your Spot Here HAVE A DATING QUESTION? HERE'S HOW TO GET IT ANSWERED BY ME... We're answering listener answers on the podcast now! The best questions will be chosen and answered on the podcast. If you want your dating questions answered, please email Support@DatingUpDate.net. --- The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don't take. Life's too short to live with regret. Go out and take action today!
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What I Did When Online Dating Wasn’t Working
After a whirlwind month end dating a girl that I finally thought could be my girlfriend, it ended. Hurt, I refused to date anyone girls inside my social circle... Months later, online dating was pathetic. I wasn't anyone. Here's what I did next... SHE WANTS YOU SYSTEM PREORDER FLASH SALE... How would you like to become the man that women want and change your dating life in 10-weeks? Learn to build the courage and confidence needed to take action and attract the women you want? We're having a Preorder Fast-Action Flash Sale. You can reserve your spot in the She Wants You System for $27 today. This is 73% off the preorder price of $97. There are limited spots so preorder to reserve yours today. Your discount is expiring on May 1st, 2019. For more information and to preorder click the link below. Reserve Your Spot Here: https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction
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How to Get Your Ex Back – Listener Question
Learn how to consistently get a girl to like you on a deeper level where she can't help, but think of you. We're releasing the She Wants You System that teaches exactly that. This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want. Get on the email list to get your fast-action discount OFF the pre-sale price! This is the lowest the program is going to be. ==> P.S. Here's how to get your fast-discount by going to the page below. https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction
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Announcement: She Wants You System Special Discount & Program Details
Learn how to consistently get a girl to like you on a deeper level where she can't help, but think of you. Get your 73% discount off on the 80% pre-order price today. The Fast-Action Discount of 73% off the 80% off the final release price is expiring 3/7/2019 @ 12:00am. It's only $27 for the next few days and will go up to $97 on 3/7/2019. Take advantage of this discount before it goes away. This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want. ==> P.S. Here's a special fast-action offer. Get an additional 73% off of the She Wants You System pre-order price today. Learn more at the link below: ==> https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction
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How to Stop Caring What Others Think
The Fast-Action Discount of 73% off the 80% off the final release price is expiring 3/7/2019 @ 12:00am. It's only $27 for the next few days and will go up to $97 on 3/7/2019. Take advantage of this discount before it goes away. This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want. ==> P.S. Here's a special fast-action offer. Get an additional 73% off of the She Wants You System pre-order price today. Learn more at the link below: ==> https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction
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The Big Killer of Relationships (and Potential Relationships)… And What You Can Do To Avoid It
A Big Killer of Relationships (and Potential Relationships)... And What You Can Do To Avoid It As you listen to this story, I want you to internalize the mistake that I made. It's one of the biggest serial killers of attraction and ALL relationships. Again, I'm extremely excited for the release of my upcoming program called The She Wants You System. It's officially starting on 4/7/2019. This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want. ==> P.S. Here's a special fast-action offer. Get an additional 73% off of the She Wants You System pre-order price today. Learn more at the link below: ==> https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction
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Going Through a Breakup? What I Wished Someone Told Me During Mine…
Going through a breakup? Listen to this story. I hope it helps. Because I wish someone sat me down and told me this exact thing. Again, I'm extremely excited for the release of my upcoming program called The She Wants You System. It's officially starting on 4/7/2019. This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want. ==> P.S. Here's a special fast-action offer. Get an additional 73% off of the She Wants You System pre-order price today. Learn more at the link below: ==> https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction
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Why You Don’t Need Confidence… And What You Need Instead…
Confidence is overrated... You need to have confidence before you can do that anything that is confident. It's a trap. How can I be confident if I don't feel confident? That's why you don't need confidence, but this instead...
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Why My 1st Relationship Was Doomed… And Why You Should Ask Girls on UpDates?
Sometimes we get into relationships for bad reasons... learn why my 1st relationship was doomed from the start. And if you're not asking girls on UpDates... Why you should ask girls on UpDates. And answering the question of WTF is an UpDate? P.S. I will be releasing information about my upcoming program called She Want You. Look out for it in the upcoming podcasts because the first people will get a fast-action taker discount of 73% off of the early bird pre-order price.
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What Dating Limiting Beliefs Hold You Back? Here Were Mine…
Our beliefs drive everything that we think and everything that we do. If you have limiting beliefs, it'll make dating harder than it needs to be...
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How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl (UpDate Podcast 51)
Have you ran into the impending doom of the awkward silence... Have you ever wondered how do I carry a conversation with a girl... Without running out of things to say or being too stuck inside your own head? We are answering your dating questions on the podcast. Please send them to Jeff@datingupdate.net. One last thing... How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating? Secrets that to help you date the women you want? You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox. You’ll receive: - The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women - A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction - Access to live online training - And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever! Here's the registration link: https://unleashyourconfidence.clickfunnels.com/create-your-accounteeewno9w Do you have any dating questions you want me to answer? Send them to Jeff@DatingUpDate.net, and I'll answer them on the next upcoming podcast! Thank you for listening!
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How to Talk to Girls (UpDate Podcast 50)
Have you just ever wondered what do you say to girls? Have you thought to yourself, "How do I talk to girls?" We'll answer these questions. And our perspective on how to improve in general. Resources mentioned in the podcast: Way of the Superior Man Book: https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Challenges-Anniversary/dp/1622038320/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1545122265&sr=8-1&keywords=way+of+the+superior+man+by+david+deida One last thing... How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating? Secrets that to help you date the women you want? You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox. You’ll receive: - The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women - A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction - Access to live online training - And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever! Here's the registration link: https://unleashyourconfidence.clickfunnels.com/create-your-accounteeewno9w Do you have any dating questions you want me to answer? Send them to Jeff@DatingUpDate.net, and I'll answer them on the next upcoming podcast! Thank you for listening!
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How to Get Over a Breakup Faster Using Neuroscience Tricks (UpDate Podcast 49)
How do you stop hurting sooner... Let’s face it breaking up is hard. You get told the same advice. Give it time. You’ll get over it eventually. Eventually can’t come soon enough. It hurts so much now. What is advice to help you get over the breakup faster? I'll share it on today podcast. This was an article that I originally wrote for Medium.com. https://medium.com/@jeff.losaria/how-to-get-over-a-breakup-faster-using-neuroscience-and-psychology-996f4a0267ca One last thing... How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating? Secrets that to help you date the women you want? You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox. You’ll receive: - The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women - A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction - Access to live online training - And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever! Here's the registration link: https://unleashyourconfidence.clickfunnels.com/create-your-accounteeewno9w Do you have any dating questions you want me to answer? Send them to Jeff@DatingUpDate.net, and I'll answer them on the next upcoming podcast! Thank you for listening!
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How to Get a Girl to Like You (UpDate Podcast 48)
Have you ever liked a girl so much... you'd give nearly anything to just figure out how to get her to like you. She's exactly your type. You can't stop thinking about her. So how do you get her to like you? We'll cover the details of how in the podcast... We created a list of top our favorite Men's cologne that women have complimented us on. It's inside the UpDate tools area. If you haven't yet, activate your free account today. You can download it by going to the link below: ==> https://unleashyourconfidence.clickfunnels.com/create-your-accounteeewno9w Create your free account today. One last thing... How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating? Secrets that to help you date the women you want? You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox. You’ll receive: - The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women - A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction - Access to live online training - And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever! Just go our website: https://www.datingupdate.net and click on the Join Now… It’s Free button. Do you have any dating questions you want me to answer? Send them to Jeff@DatingUpDate.net, and I'll answer them on the next upcoming podcast! Thank you for listening!
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How to Start Conversation with a Girl: Great Conversation Starters and 250+ Cheesy Pickup Lines That Can Work (UpDate Podcast 47)
Have you struggled with how to start a conversation with a girl? Ever see an attractive girl and just wondered what do say to her? I'll break down how to start a conversation with a girl. I'll talk about the different categories of conversation starters/icebreakers/openers. And cover the foundations to make any could make any cheesy pick up line work. I'm not going to cover all 250+ cheesy pick up lines. I created a downloadable cheat sheet with our "Consistent Conversation Starters" and a list of hand-picked 250+ cheesy pick up lines that can work. Download it by going to the link below: ==> https://unleashyourconfidence.clickfunnels.com/create-your-accounteeewno9w Create your free account today. One last thing... How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating? Secrets that to help you date the women you want? You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox. You’ll receive: - The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women - A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction - Access to live online training - And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever! Just go our website: https://www.datingupdate.net and click on the Join Now… It’s Free button.
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How a Single Compliment Helped Me Overcome My Social Anxiety… (UpDate Podcast 46)
This where I ruined the first quality relationship I could’ve had after my 6-and-a-half-year girlfriend. Now I was running out of options. I tried online dating, and I didn’t want to date any more girls in my social circle. Nothing else was working. I had no control over my dating life. I was sitting down, and I saw a cute girl pass by. And I thought, “What’s wrong with me. There’s a cute girl over there… I can’t talk to her.” And before that moment, I would’ve overwhelmed with social anxiety at the mere thought of walking over to an attractive girl to talk to her. I would freeze and feel like I would have a panic attack if I had to try and flirt with her. I would die if there were other people who could listen. Normally, I would just lie to myself and pretend like I wasn’t interested. But at this moment, I was fed up. I was tired of feeling helpless and sad. One last thing... How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating? Secrets that to help you date the women you want? You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox. You’ll receive: - The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women - A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction - Access to live online training - And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever! Just go our website: https://www.datingupdate.net and click on the Join Now… It’s Free button.
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We’re Back… Well, I’m Back Announcement (DU Episode 45)

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Answering Different Men’s Dating Frustrations… Can You Relate? – Part 2 (DU Episode 44)

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Answering Different Men’s Dating Frustrations… Can You Relate? – Part 1 (PG Episode 43)

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Are You a Needy Person? How to Stop Being Needy (PG Episode 42)

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Building an Attractive Lifestyle That Attracts the Women You Want (PG Podcast 41)

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Being Monogamous or Choosing Non-Monogamy… Find The Best Relationship Type for You (PG Podcast 40)

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How to Stop Overthinking and Being Stuck In Your Head (PG Podcast 39)

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Dating Abundance… What They Don’t Tell You (PG Episode 38)

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What Women Want? (PG Podcast 37)

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How to Ask a Girl Out…Using Group Dates (PG Podcast 36)

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Attracting Women Through Giving Value (PG Podcast 34)

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I Miss Her… Should I Get Back With My Ex? (PG Podcast 33)
Amidst the pain of the break up you keep thinking if you should get back with your ex. Do you really miss her? How do you know if you made the right choice?
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When Can You Use Honesty and Be Genuine? (PG Podcast 32)
You hear all the time in movies, TV shows, and from women, that all they want is honesty. But what does this exactly mean? Is there a wrong time or right time to be completely honest and genuine? In episode 32, we’ll discuss how to be genuine and the common pitfalls many people fall into.
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What You Can Do To Escape The Dreaded Friend Zone (PG Podcast 31)
Racking up those friendships points huh? So eventually she'll become your girlfriend in real life instead of your I-wish-this-were-real wet dreams. If that's you, then listen to his podcast. We talk about what you can do if you are stuck the dreaded friend zone.
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15 Biggest Mistakes Men Make With Women – Part 2 (PG Podcast 30)

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15 Biggest Mistakes Men Make With Women – Part 1 (PG Podcast 29)

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Dealing with Awkward Silence and How to Build Sexual Tension (PG Podcast 28)

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Avoiding Relationship Problems By Not Making Your Partner Your ONLY Priority (PG Podcast 27)

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How to Approach a Girl in Groups: Group Dynamics 101 (PG Podcast 26)

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Overcome Your Negativity and Stop Your Negative Thoughts that Are Killing Your Chances with Women (PG Podcast 25)
This is a podcast to help you overcome your negativity and stop your negative thoughts. It's inspired by Ray's depressing mood on the last podcast episode 24. We all go through ups and down especially when it coming to dating. You'll quit or lose yourself in a dark and depressing path if you allow your negative thoughts to take control. We talk about our own advice for remaining positive when everything seems so shitty.
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How to Turn Around a Bad Night Meeting Women for You and Your Friends (PG Podcast 23)

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Self Amusement and Why It’s Attractive to Girls (PG Podcast 22)

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How to Get into a Good Mood and Mind State to Make It Easier to Talk to Girls (PG Podcast 21)
We are all about making it easier and not harder. One of the best ways to make it easier to talk to girls is by getting into "state". State is the seduction community term for "getting in the zone", "being on fire", or "being on". Basically, state is operating fully in the moment where everything just flows. It's where everything feels easy and natural.
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How to Find a Last-Minute Date: Valentine’s Day Edition (PG Podcast 20)
Under pressure and need to find a last-minute date in less than a day or two? Or maybe, your date flaked on you, and you need a date in a couple of hours. We decided to release a last-minute guide for finding a last-minute date because Valentine's Day is tomorrow. And we want to make sure it's not Alentine's Ay, which the day for people who don't get the "V" or the "D" on Valentine's Day.
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Our Dating Fails! Learn From Our Biggest Bad Dates and Dating Mistakes (PG Podcast 19)

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How Not Settling and Having Standards Reduces Your Unhealthy Relationships (PG Podcast 18)

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Are We Dating? Dating Labels for Types of Relationships (PG Podcast 17)

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When to Break Up and Leave a Relationship (PG Podcast 15)
We ambush Ray and talk to him about his recent break up. Listen to the podcast, and you’ll gain an overall idea of when to break up and leave a relationship. Remember, friends don't let friends be in bad relationships.
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How to Be a “Bad Boy” and “Nice Guy” That Women Are Drawn To (PG Podcast 14)
A sequel to the last podcast because it was unsatisfyingly cut off short. A practical look on what nice guy and bad boy qualities work. We give you actionable advice to help you become the man that women want to be with.
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Do Nice Guys Finish Last? (PG Podcast 13)

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Meeting and Approaching Women During the Day (PG Podcast 12)
Day game is my favorite way to meet girls besides social circle or grooving in the club. It was our “gateway drug” into the rabbit hole of improving our success with women and our lives in general. Day game is meeting and attracting women during the day time. There are differences between day game vs. night game, and it goes deeper than if the sun is out or not.
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How We Approached Dating Before and After We Learned About “Game” (Flashback 1 Year Ago) (PG Podcast 11)
But I think the episode shows our enthusiasm for being new to the “Game”. We dive into what shaped our perceptions and influences that greatly affected our dating lives, and how we viewed relationships.
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Overcoming Approach Anxiety and Fear of Rejection (PG Podcast 10)
This is our episode 10. We'll give you our personal tools for overcoming approach anxiety and your fear of rejection. You'll hear stories of our first approaches and how we still deal with approach anxiety today. Most of us at least (Panda doesn't have approach anxiety).
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Online Dating Tips for Men Part 2 (Success & Horror Stories) (PG Podcast 08)
This is our episode 8 where we go over more of Anthony's advice for online dating plus Panda, Rodrigo and Anthony's online dating stories (good and bad).
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Online Dating Tips for Men Part 1 (Online Profile Basics) (PG Podcast 07)
This is our episode 7 where we go over the basics of online dating. You’ll hear about our lack of results and what has not been working for us (except for Panda). Because this isn’t our specialty, we brought in our friend Anthony who has been seeing massive results with online dating. He’s has professional mentor, and he shares his insights and experiences to help you get started.
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Crazy One-Night Stands Part 2 (PG Podcast 06)
In our episode 6, we continue the craziness with our HUGE group of our friends and delve deeper into topics about times we have caught feelings or have been hurt when physical relationships start changing into something more. We go one-night stands. This is our advice for having them and creating an awesome shared experience between you and the girl.
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Crazy One-Night Stands Part 1 (PG Podcast 05)
In our episode 5, we invited out a group of our friends to share their craziest one-night stand stories: there's interestingly twists that make each story fun and edgy: from 10-minute public sex to "I don't even know her name" to the typical "whatever happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas stories." This is our advice for having them and creating an awesome shared experience between you and the girl.
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How to Approach, Open, & Start Conversation with Girls (PG Podcast 04)
This is our episode 4 where we go over how to approach, open and start conversation with girls. We cover the 3 general types of openers we were taught when we 1st started: direct, indirect, situational. Plus, we talk about non-verbal openers, and miscellaneous openers.
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How to Flirt with Girls (PG Podcast 03)
This is our episode 3 where we go over a dating basic and necessity: how to flirt with girls. We define flirting and bantering, and why you should care. And our own advice on how to flirt and banter.
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Does She Like Me? Signs of Attraction – Part 2 (PG Podcast 02)
We provide you with A LOT more information so you can answer that burning question. "Does she like me?" We discuss the numerous ways we've learned to recognize female attraction.
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Does She Like Me? Signs of Attraction – Part 1 (PG Podcast 01)
This is our episode 1 where we go in-depth of how to tell if she likes you: signs of attraction. So you can answer that burning question. "Does she like me?"
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Starting Your Journey of Changing Your Dating Life (DU Podcast 0)
This is our episode 0 where you get to learn more about our background and insight into why we started to podcast. You’ll learn about Jeff, Macy, Panda, Rodrigo and Tommy’s backgrounds. We define what a Pompous Gentlemen is.
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